Everyone knows that the topic of sexual health, masturbation and sex is a very taboo topic especially in Asian households. But what we may not know is how important it is to maintain a healthy sexual relationship, especially with yourself! Set aside all the crazy things you’ve heard about masturbation, about it being bad for you, that it can cause infertility or that it is deathly addictive (we’ll discuss that too). First up on our discussion is sex toys, what they are and where you can find them, and how they can make you happy! Before we start, you should visit the Secret Cherry Sex Toy Store Malaysia and quench your curiosity on what sex toys look like.
Sex Toys
For both women and men, it can be very intimidating to think about buying a sex toy for yourself or for you and your partner. Let’s talk about buying a sex toy for yourself first. Sex toys are such a fun way to spice up your nightly fun alone! They can help alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety, as well as help stimulate your mind (and your body, of course!). Sometimes, using sex toys can help women learn more about their bodies, find out their likes and dislikes and exactly what would work for them in the bedroom. Using sex toys brings you much closer to your body as you get close and comfortable with yourself, without the worry of being judged by anyone. As it can be quite scary to browse through the plethora of sex toys there are in the market, you should keep an open mind when you look through them, and think about what you feel may please you the most. Try not to pressure yourself, just relax and try to enjoy yourself!
Now, using sex toys with partners are an incredible way to spice up your sex life. Even if you are comfortable with using sex toys during your alone times, using toys with partners can feel like an untouched territory that you may be afraid of. It is crucial that you discuss the new things you want to bring into your sexual life with your partner so that you both know what you are getting into. In many ways, there is not a big difference between using a toy on your own and with a partner. In fact, you can probably use the same toys that you use alone with your partner too! Just make sure to be safe with it, toys need protection too! Make sure that you use condoms and clean your toys thoroughly to avoid the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or any unhygenic exchanges.
What Are Sex Toys Exactly?
If you’re unsure of what sex toys are exactly, there are many various types of toys you will encounter when you browse through Secret Cherry sex toy store Malaysia. Lets breakdown a few types of sex toys you may come across.
- Vibrators: There are a plethora of vibrators out there. There are bullets, insertable vibrators, external wands and rabbit vibrators. It depends on which type you would prefer to use with your partner or yourself, but there are a few things to consider, like the size, shape and the strength of the toy, and whether or not you will use it for penetration purposes.
- Dildos: These may come on their own, but there are some dildos in the market that are also a vibrator. Anything that you can use to penetrate would be considered a dildo, plug. Add a strap to attach it to yourself and you’ve got a strap-on!
- BDSM: There are many types of BDSM toys out there that you can purchase to spruce up your bedroom activities, from blindfolds, handcuffs to whips and sensation play products.
We hope that when you experiment and indulge in the idea of introducing sex toys into you and your partners’ life, the stigma and judgement of it is released too. It is important for you to lead a healthy path sexually too, and that can be done by slowly incorporating the use of sex toys in you and your relationships as well. It is not a shameful thing and you should be open with it as it helps you learn so much about your sacred body!