Now when people talk about sex, they usually go into topics such as STDs, pregnancy, roleplay, BDSM, and many more. To put it simply, the list is endless. ‘How to spice up your sex life?’ is probably one of the more common topics. Nevertheless, not many talk about ‘how to have sex?’, or even ‘What is sex?’. Many of us, especially from conservative countries who are not used to talking about it, typically learn about sex from unconventional places. Books, porn, and movies are just some of them. We never actually receive a formal education like children from countries like America do. These kids actually learn about it in a subject called Sex. Ed. or Sexual Education.
So for those of you who have no clue about sex, allow me to help you out. Fret not, there’s nothing to be shy about. It’s completely natural to be curious about sex, especially when you reach an age where your sex drive is at its height. So, to begin with, sex is something you need to do in order to reproduce. Of course, this is the textbook answer. Not to say that it is wrong, but sex involves so much more. It is an activity that you do with your partner where the both of you tough each other and sate the arousal that you feel. Now, this brings us to the most important questions of all… How do you have sex?
To begin with, there are many ways to have sex. Let’s start slow. First, we have kissing. This is something that you do with your partner. Usually at the beginning of your relationship when you’re starting to get comfortable with each other. And yes I know, kissing is not sex, but it is what leads up to the occasion. Next is rubbing your bodies together, again this is what builds up tension among the two of you and what eventually leads up to sex. And lastly, you do the deed. This includes vaginal, anal and oral sex.
Of course, there are other activities that you can do alone. You don’t have to have a partner to have sex. For those of you who feel that relationships may be a burden or a waste of time, this here is for you. To start with, masturbating. It’s the act of bringing yourself pleasure by touching yourself with your fingers or using other tools such as sex toys. This brings us to our next way of having sex, using sex toys.
Sex toys are known as adult toys that are usually used to generate or stimulate more pleasure. There are a variety of sex toys that are created for different uses. By this, I mean that different sex toys are used to bring pleasure to different parts of your body. There are dildos, vibrators, nipple clamps, and this list goes on. Since this is just an introductory to sex for beginners, I’ll stop here. Lest I get carried away…
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